By Steve Ubah - Smartwomansguide.com
Was it a hectic day for you, or did you have one of those slowdays that seem to drag on forever? Well, hopefully when you gethome, if you are not home already, you will not have some dramayou don’t need waiting for you. If you do, we have some ideasabout how to quench the drama, deflate your anger and get backto your fun self.
First, you have to start by fighting the right way. Knowing howto have an argument with your honey will go a long way todetermine how long you brood over the hurtful things that weresaid. If your primary goal is to be right when you fight withyour guy, then I am afraid you may be constantly settingyourself up for more anger and disappointment, which keepsboiling inside you and ultimately prolongs the time it takes tokiss and make up.
When you fight, do it the right way. Let each party say theirpiece and make every effort to respect each other’s point ofview. When you do that, it is quite easy to see where eachperson is coming from and forgiveness becomes much easier. Whenyou can forgive, then you know you are ready to kiss and makeup. Here are some ways to show that you are ready to forgive andmove on:
Crack a joke about something he said during your fight – Ittakes a mature mind to pull back after a fight, really look atwhat caused a fight, and see the humor in some of the thingsthat were said in the heat of anger. You can do it, if peace andhappiness in your relationship is your ultimate aim in whateveryou do.
Take a drive and come home with a smile – Take a drive, call afriend, and talk about something else other than the fight youjust had with your honey. It does not pay to air your dirtylaundry, lest you get the wrong advice from well-meaning andsometimes jealous friends. When you have taken your long drive,come back to the house, but be sure you stroll in with a smile.Your guy will find it difficult to hold on to his stone face –his heart will definitely melt.
Surprise him with a little note - an apology – Write a quicknote and stick it on your refrigerator door. Your guy willsurely see and will surely forgive you in no time. You can alsoplace it in pocket of the shirt he will be wearing to work thenext day, or on the driver’s seat of his car. Find a creativeplace to put it. The more creative you are placing your note,the bigger the surprise.
When he least expects it, give him a hug from the back – Whenyou get the opportunity, sneak up to him from the back and givehim a big hug. He will not push you off. Turn him around,apologize and give him a big kiss, and he will forget what youwere arguing about.
Have dinner together at home – The stomach is still the key to aman’s heart. Order something he loves, or if you can, whip up amean dish. Cook his favorite and he will forgive you without youtendering any formal apologies. Your efforts will do theapologizing for you – after all, action speaks much louder thanwords.
Pinch his butt, ease into a French kiss and make love – Believeit or not, men love it when you pinch their butt. They do it towomen and when the table is turned on them, they find it quiteamusing. Pinching his butt after everyone has cooled off from afight shows that you are ready to have fun. Just go ahead andplant a wet one on him, and move on to building a lovingrelationship.
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